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November 23 2011
Open Letter to Hasbro-
I wrote the following letter to Hasbro after looking for My Little Pony toys to get my son for Christmas. While Ed does enjoy and play with many of the My Little Pony ponies/dolls available it can be a challenge for my son to be allowed to freely play with them sometimes due to the misperceptions of other adults in his life. *coughCHRIScough* Plus my son wouldn't mind having a "brony" since it can get boring to play with only one gender.
To Whom It May Concern:
I'm a long time fan of the My Little Pony toys from the time I was a little girl to even now in my adulthood. Sadly, I have to admit that I'm very disappointed in the variety of My Little Pony ponies/dolls.
As a parent, it can be very disheartening to watch boys or girls repeatedly be turned away from toys they are interested in because the toy is considered a specific gender's toy. Children of both genders enjoy toys of all colors and types, where the only limit should be child's imagination. Toys help children learn through play. Just as it is wrong and unthinkable to limit age-appropriate education based on gender; it is wrong to limit children's play based on gender.
Unfortunately, children are constantly being limited in play and having their learning potential limited by toys marketed only to one specific gender while ignoring the other gender. Part of the solution is caregivers who let children play with any age-appropriate toys regardless of the gender specific marketing. A much larger part is toy companies making toys that incorporate images that show all kinds of children playing with the toys, shedding the discriminatory marketing tactics and having toy lines that encourages all children to feel comfortable, safe, and secure in selecting and playing with the toys.
The My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic episodes on Hub are appealing to all children but the My Little Pony toys are so heavily marketed in an old fashioned and sexist manner that the My Little Pony toyline ignores boys completely. So while many boys enjoy My Little Pony and all children could enjoy the My Little Pony toys, only one gender of ponies are made and the only male toy of the whole My Little Pony line is Spike a baby dragon that is sold as an accessory to Twilight Sparkle pony/doll. There is not a single male pony aka "Brony" toy currently available as part of the My Little Pony brand. It is unacceptable and disgraceful. The obvious lack of one gender except for one that is considered a "pet" and accessory sends the troubling message that boys are only good as objects or servants.
I am pleased to see the female populace of My Little Pony are independent, intelligent, capable and powerful in their own right but there is no reason why males can't be included in the toyline. Without the implied message that they only way women can be capable, intelligent, and independent beings is to exclude men, infantilize them or make them a less privileged class of citizens. Equality is an important value for boys and girls. So it is important that children aren't sent confusing messages that undermine this core value.
While some children may not find the lack of a gender in their toys limiting, it is much harder for children to gain access to the toys due to adult misperception that My Little Pony toys are "just for girls" or Transformer toys are "just for boys". Children who enjoy the My Little Pony brand would be empowered by having variety to select ponies/dolls of either gender to play with.
I personally was hoping that by winter holiday shopping time this year Hasbro would have recognized the unexpectedly large demographic of male My Little Pony fans thanks to the popularity of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic by expanding their toyline to be more friendly to all genders. Sadly, Hasbro lost out on a significant portion of my family's Christmas gift budget due to ignoring the male gender as fans and in the My Little Pony line of toys.
So I emphatically implore your company to cast off the antiquated and discriminatory ideas of the past and embrace making and marketing toys that send positive messages regardless of gender. It is a shame that your company will lose precious potential customers in a tough economic time due to ignoring the purchasing potential of toys that encourage both genders to play.
Sincerely,
Legal Name Redacted
To Whom It May Concern:
I'm a long time fan of the My Little Pony toys from the time I was a little girl to even now in my adulthood. Sadly, I have to admit that I'm very disappointed in the variety of My Little Pony ponies/dolls.
As a parent, it can be very disheartening to watch boys or girls repeatedly be turned away from toys they are interested in because the toy is considered a specific gender's toy. Children of both genders enjoy toys of all colors and types, where the only limit should be child's imagination. Toys help children learn through play. Just as it is wrong and unthinkable to limit age-appropriate education based on gender; it is wrong to limit children's play based on gender.
Unfortunately, children are constantly being limited in play and having their learning potential limited by toys marketed only to one specific gender while ignoring the other gender. Part of the solution is caregivers who let children play with any age-appropriate toys regardless of the gender specific marketing. A much larger part is toy companies making toys that incorporate images that show all kinds of children playing with the toys, shedding the discriminatory marketing tactics and having toy lines that encourages all children to feel comfortable, safe, and secure in selecting and playing with the toys.
The My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic episodes on Hub are appealing to all children but the My Little Pony toys are so heavily marketed in an old fashioned and sexist manner that the My Little Pony toyline ignores boys completely. So while many boys enjoy My Little Pony and all children could enjoy the My Little Pony toys, only one gender of ponies are made and the only male toy of the whole My Little Pony line is Spike a baby dragon that is sold as an accessory to Twilight Sparkle pony/doll. There is not a single male pony aka "Brony" toy currently available as part of the My Little Pony brand. It is unacceptable and disgraceful. The obvious lack of one gender except for one that is considered a "pet" and accessory sends the troubling message that boys are only good as objects or servants.
I am pleased to see the female populace of My Little Pony are independent, intelligent, capable and powerful in their own right but there is no reason why males can't be included in the toyline. Without the implied message that they only way women can be capable, intelligent, and independent beings is to exclude men, infantilize them or make them a less privileged class of citizens. Equality is an important value for boys and girls. So it is important that children aren't sent confusing messages that undermine this core value.
While some children may not find the lack of a gender in their toys limiting, it is much harder for children to gain access to the toys due to adult misperception that My Little Pony toys are "just for girls" or Transformer toys are "just for boys". Children who enjoy the My Little Pony brand would be empowered by having variety to select ponies/dolls of either gender to play with.
I personally was hoping that by winter holiday shopping time this year Hasbro would have recognized the unexpectedly large demographic of male My Little Pony fans thanks to the popularity of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic by expanding their toyline to be more friendly to all genders. Sadly, Hasbro lost out on a significant portion of my family's Christmas gift budget due to ignoring the male gender as fans and in the My Little Pony line of toys.
So I emphatically implore your company to cast off the antiquated and discriminatory ideas of the past and embrace making and marketing toys that send positive messages regardless of gender. It is a shame that your company will lose precious potential customers in a tough economic time due to ignoring the purchasing potential of toys that encourage both genders to play.
Sincerely,
Legal Name Redacted
October 12 2011
Mississippi Personhood Amendment
Originally posted by
gabrielleabelle at Mississippi Personhood Amendment
Okay, so I don't usually do this, but this is an issue near and dear to me and this is getting very little no attention in the mainstream media.
Mississippi is voting on November 8th on whether to pass Amendment 26, the "Personhood Amendment". This amendment would grant fertilized eggs and fetuses personhood status.
Putting aside the contentious issue of abortion, this would effectively outlaw birth control and criminalize women who have miscarriages. This is not a good thing.
Jackson Women's Health Organization is the only place women can get abortions in the entire state, and they are trying to launch a grassroots movement against this amendment. This doesn't just apply to Mississippi, though, as Personhood USA, the group that introduced this amendment, is trying to introduce identical amendments in all 50 states.
What's more, in Mississippi, this amendment is expected to pass. It even has Mississippi Democrats, including the Attorney General, Jim Hood, backing it.
The reason I'm posting this here is because I made a meager donation to the Jackson Women's Health Organization this morning, and I received a personal email back hours later - on a Sunday - thanking me and noting that I'm one of the first "outside" people to contribute.
So if you sometimes pass on political action because you figure that enough other people will do something to make a difference, make an exception on this one. My RSS reader is near silent on this amendment. I only found out about it through a feminist blog. The mainstream media is not reporting on it.
If there is ever a time to donate or send a letter in protest, this would be it.
What to do?
- Read up on it. Wake Up, Mississippi is the home of the grassroots effort to fight this amendment. Daily Kos also has a thorough story on it.
- If you can afford it, you can donate at the site's link.
- You can contact the Democratic National Committee to see why more of our representatives aren't speaking out against this.
- Like this Facebook page to help spread awareness.
Mississippi is voting on November 8th on whether to pass Amendment 26, the "Personhood Amendment". This amendment would grant fertilized eggs and fetuses personhood status.
Putting aside the contentious issue of abortion, this would effectively outlaw birth control and criminalize women who have miscarriages. This is not a good thing.
Jackson Women's Health Organization is the only place women can get abortions in the entire state, and they are trying to launch a grassroots movement against this amendment. This doesn't just apply to Mississippi, though, as Personhood USA, the group that introduced this amendment, is trying to introduce identical amendments in all 50 states.
What's more, in Mississippi, this amendment is expected to pass. It even has Mississippi Democrats, including the Attorney General, Jim Hood, backing it.
The reason I'm posting this here is because I made a meager donation to the Jackson Women's Health Organization this morning, and I received a personal email back hours later - on a Sunday - thanking me and noting that I'm one of the first "outside" people to contribute.
So if you sometimes pass on political action because you figure that enough other people will do something to make a difference, make an exception on this one. My RSS reader is near silent on this amendment. I only found out about it through a feminist blog. The mainstream media is not reporting on it.
If there is ever a time to donate or send a letter in protest, this would be it.
What to do?
- Read up on it. Wake Up, Mississippi is the home of the grassroots effort to fight this amendment. Daily Kos also has a thorough story on it.
- If you can afford it, you can donate at the site's link.
- You can contact the Democratic National Committee to see why more of our representatives aren't speaking out against this.
- Like this Facebook page to help spread awareness.
September 23 2011
GE, Y U NO PAY TAXES?!
Originally posted by
lavenderfrost at GE, Y U NO PAY TAXES?!
The (supposedly liberal) mainstream media is barely doing jack squat to cover this, so it's up to us to spread the word. BOOST THE SIGNAL, PEOPLE.
The (supposedly liberal) mainstream media is barely doing jack squat to cover this, so it's up to us to spread the word. BOOST THE SIGNAL, PEOPLE.
October 05 2010
Spirit Day
Originally posted by
neo_prodigy at Spirit Day 
It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 6 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes at at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools.
RIP Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh (top)
RIP Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase (middle)
RIP Asher Brown and Billy Lucas. (bottom)
REBLOG to spread a message of love, unity and peace.

It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 6 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes at at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools.
RIP Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh (top)
RIP Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase (middle)
RIP Asher Brown and Billy Lucas. (bottom)
REBLOG to spread a message of love, unity and peace.
September 02 2010
Some help to protect your personal journal from LJ's latest privacy invading feature
As C & P'ed from my friend
brianblackberry 's LJ:
Handy information on how to make that pesky Facebook/Twitter repost option disappear from any comments done on your post thanks to
dydan and
westly_roanoke :
.b-repost-item {display:none}
For those of you that don't know how to do that, well....here's what you gotta do.
1. Go to your "Journal" menu, and select "Journal Style"
2. To the right, you'll see what theme you're using, with a link stating "Customize Your Theme". Click that link.
3. Scroll down a little ways, and you'll see that on the left side of your screen, you have multiple options to modify your theme. Click on the "Custom CSS" link, and it should load the options for doing Custom CSS.
4. From here, all you have to do is go to the "Custom Stylesheet", and put in that line.
.b-repost-item {display:none}
Once that's in there, you want to save the changes, and you should be done. Leave everything else as it is (unless you want to remove more things!).
I am told this may not work with free journals that have themes that do not use a custom comment page, it does work for mine (which is custom comment) thus far and for a friend (who isn't), but try it yourself and see.
Handy information on how to make that pesky Facebook/Twitter repost option disappear from any comments done on your post thanks to
.b-repost-item {display:none}
For those of you that don't know how to do that, well....here's what you gotta do.
1. Go to your "Journal" menu, and select "Journal Style"
2. To the right, you'll see what theme you're using, with a link stating "Customize Your Theme". Click that link.
3. Scroll down a little ways, and you'll see that on the left side of your screen, you have multiple options to modify your theme. Click on the "Custom CSS" link, and it should load the options for doing Custom CSS.
4. From here, all you have to do is go to the "Custom Stylesheet", and put in that line.
.b-repost-item {display:none}
Once that's in there, you want to save the changes, and you should be done. Leave everything else as it is (unless you want to remove more things!).
I am told this may not work with free journals that have themes that do not use a custom comment page, it does work for mine (which is custom comment) thus far and for a friend (who isn't), but try it yourself and see.
August 19 2010
RT @phdinparenting: As usual I have tons of gift ideas for the child whose b-day is not soon and none for the one whose is. Sigh.
RT @FeministBreeder: Thank you @Babble for helping to dispel this #breastfeeding myth: blogs.babble.com/... Breastfeeding does NOT sag y ...
August 18 2010
The 3rd wedding anniversary is leather... Interesting.
August 13 2010
For infant sleep, receptiveness more important than routine http://t.co/8aotHTS via @AddThis
August 07 2010
Wallet, come here wallet!! Well it was worth a shot. If you were my wallet other than being cold, lonely, and empty where would you be?
August 06 2010
Last night was another prime example of why Ed shouldn't go back to public school. The school district just isn't able to handle him.
RT @sallywits: RT @MommyPerks: Fed up with your kids? Helpline for anger - www.examiner.com/... #parents #parenting
July 28 2010
Awesome! I bought some Reese's cups on impulse at Walgreens and won a $25 gift card! Woot!
LOL Cat is taking fries from the fry box and putting them in the bag. Then taking the fries out of the bag to eat. Silly Catie!
July 19 2010
Please don't have Chicken Pox, Catie. Mommy hasn't had it nor the vaccine and it would be very bad for Mommy. The thought makes me itch!
July 17 2010
Okay Cat I'm coming back to bed, but I'm not happy about it. Dishes need to be unload then dirty dishes loaded, kitties & plants need aqua.
RT @ClothDiaperMom: Don’t Got Milk? When Babies Need Human Milk Banks | Pediatrics thefastertimes.com/...
Hey Docs! If a #mother can't #breastfeed there is a serious problem, because MAMMALS LACTATE and human babies need human milk.
July 16 2010
ZOMG WHERE'S THE NAPROXEN?! My hips are screaming in pain!!
July 13 2010
I just supported Best For Babes Foundation Inc on Chase Community Giving! #chasegiving apps.facebook.com/...
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